Humility = Reality of Grace
Monday, October 29th, 2007In the previous post I began to explain and defend the idea that humility is “man’s accurate assessment of himself in light of reality”. For a human being, humility is nothing other than reality, and pride is nothing other than imagination and falsehood. To further support that claim, let’s look at how “false humility” is both false and an expression of pride.
Paul commands,
For through the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think more highly of himself than he ought to think; but to think so as to have sound judgment, as God has allotted to each a measure of faith. (Rom 12:3)
We are commanded not to think of ourselves more highly than we ought. Recall that “humility” is related to “lowliness” so thinking too “highly” of ourselves is the opposite of humility. But we are not commanded to think of ourselves as completely, utterly, useless, worthless nothings. Rather, God has allotted to each a measure of faith. There is something significant about us, something that we did not work for, earn, merit, or put in ourselves, but something that God has put in us. Therefore, we are to think so as to have sound judgment, in other words, think of ourselves in accordance with reality. Not puffed up by giving any good credit to ourselves whatsoever, but also not failing to give God the due credit He deserves for the good He has put in us who are His.
In addition to the spiritual gifts which are in view in the above passage, we also know that every good thing given and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights (James 1:17). Man was originally made in God’s image. Despite how much we have scarred, destroyed, and overturned that image, it still remains that every creative thing mankind does is an imitation of our Creator at work. We have creative and gifted artists, engineers, scientists, story-tellers, and administrators among men because God is the ultimate Artist, Engineer, Scientist, Story-Teller, and Administrator. When an author, for example, writes a story designed to promote philosophical lies he is guilty in himself of blaspheming God, but at the same time, against his own will, he is also bringing glory to God. For in the very act of using words to “create” new worlds he is like a little child imitating what his father does.
If someone denies being gifted at something which everyone else knows he is good it, in many or most cases this is probably an expression of pride rather than humility. For example, say we all know that Bob is a gifted musician. If Bob says, “I’m a poor musician”, it could possibly be an expression of humility if, for example:
- Bob spent last night sleeping out in the woods and as he listened to the symphony of frogs, crickets, birds, and wind blowing through the reeds, he was humbled by the reminder that God is orchestrating a billion concerts with trillions of instruments all over the universe simultaneously.
However, when Bob says, “I’m a poor musician”, it could also very well be an expression of pride.
- Perhaps Bob is expressing disappointment over the fact that, as a musician, he is not famous enough to go on stage and have adoring crowds stroke his ego every day.
- Perhaps Bob knows that the more he speaks lowly of himself the more his friends will try to encourage him by praising him, and if he acknowledges his gift then they will not feel as much need to encourage him and thus the praise will stop.
- If Bob judges his own musical abilities to be poor then very likely his mind will be filled with even harsher condescending thoughts towards a performer who is less gifted than he is.
- Perhaps Bob is crediting himself for the limited musical ability that he does have, and then comparing himself to others who are better, rather than acknowledging that whatever limited ability any of us have comes from God alone.
[Yes, sadly I am an expert in proud thinking.]
As Christians, we insult God if we say we are not good at anything and that we have nothing to offer. God said that He has given each of us gifts and made each of us to be a part of the church in such a manner that the whole body will hurt if our contribution is lacking (e.g. I Cor 12). Humility doesn’t deny the reality of our gifts, on the contrary, humility always affirms reality by acknowledging that the good in us comes from God and not ourselves. Moreover, humility acknowledges the reality that the reason God gives us gifts is not to puff us up, but to serve others because in reality others’ interests truly are above our own.
For example, if in fact God has given me a gift in expressing challenging insights from the Bible through writing, then the reason is because God cares so much about you that He has compelled me to communicate these things to you, dear reader. Since your interests are more significant than mine, God has made me to be your servant. Likewise, God has given you gifts because of His love and His desire to provide those gifts, not merely to you, but even more so to the people around you, because their interests are more significant than yours.
So “false humility” really is false humility. That is to say, “false humility” is pride. “False humility” fails to bring me down to the level of being your servant with the gifts, abilities, and resources that I have. Let no such pride cause any of us to say or to think or say that we have nothing significant to contribute to the church, the advance of the kingdom of God, and the display of the glory of Christ to the world around us. Rather, in true humility, with sound judgment, let each one affirm the reality of the gift(s) he has received, and in humility let him use it to serve others, faithfully administering God’s grace in its various forms (I Peter 4:10)!